Why the Stare? A Critical Look at Desperation, Power, and the Male Gaze Why do some men stare? Not glance. Not notice. But stare long enough to consume, long enough to reduce a human being into an object meant to absorb their desperation. Why should anyone become a screen for someone else’s hunger? Desperation Is Not Innocence Desperation is often framed as harmless — poor men, lonely men, touch-starved men. But desperation does not absolve responsibility. It does not suspend ethics. It does not grant permission. So the real question is not why they feel desperate , but: Why do they believe their desperation entitles them to someone else’s body, even visually? The Stare as an Assertion of Power A stare is never neutral. It is an act of dominance disguised as desire. It claims space. It intrudes. It forces presence without consent. When a man stares, he is saying: I can look, and you must endure. This is why women know the difference between admiration and threat. T...
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